Racism and Hypocrisy

Went out for an “Indian” with a friend and some of his friends. Apparently, a common chat-up line for subcontinentals in the UK is “D’you like a good Indian?” Nice one, that. Suppose it wouldn’t work for anybody who wasn’t Indian, though. “D’you like a good Pakistani?” isn’t quite the same.

The friend’s friends were these good old guys, salt of the earth types. English earth, that is. Judge for yourself what they were like, based on these remarks – “You’re not turning Muslim, are you?” – in response to something about the drinks being delivered by a waiter, not waitress. Or “How was the bomb-making course, then?”, when said friend mentioned he read chemistry (He wasn’t Muslim, just for the record). Or again, about disliking Thai food “Just don’t like anything to do with slitty-eyed people”.

Now here’s the thing. These remarks were made openly, addressed to my friend and me, both of who are obviously of south Asian extraction. I’m confused about how to react. Or if I should react at all. From one angle, it’s as if we were part of the “inner circle”, where one could make remarks like that and get away with it. Certainly my friend acted like it.

From another angle, one could interpret it to mean that the people making those remarks were prejudiced about Muslims and East Asians, but not Indians (The fact that we were at an Indian eatery and all of them were Indian food fanatics lends weight to this theory). But how do you know that they wouldn’t make similarly erudite observations about my type of people when there weren’t any of us present? (Difficult though it is to get away from us these days).

Third, and here’s where I struggle a bit – is it sheer hypocrisy for me to be disturbed by this? Back home in India, racism as defined here is so casual as to be mainstream. “Chinkies”, “Mozzies” and “Kalloos” pepper our conversation, and belonging to an “upper” caste carries with it a feeling of smugness. So should I interpret tonight’s remarks as healthy, just like it was back home, or admit to myself that back home is a place that is truly rotten to the core?

The Faraway Tree

Did you read Enid Blyton when you were young? If you didn't, and all you read (if you did read at all) were crappy manga comics, or whatever it it is that kids read these days, more's the pity.

I was suddenly reminded of a series of Blyton's stories that I'd glimpsed, and always wanted to read, but never gottten around to, Not even now, a quarter of a century from when I heard of them. The Faraway Tree.

A tree that grows way up into the clouds, and if you get to the top, you arrive at a magical land, one that's different every time you climb up. Not to mention the interesting folk that live on the tree itself, to be encountered on the climb.

I've always loved to travel, to explore places, to be surprised by what's round the corner. Made me wonder if my wanting to live here in the UK had something to do with it. Is the UK my Faraway Tree? My platform to launch myself into lands unknown, my personal metaphor for the folks that I'd meet on the journey, the Folk of the Faraway Tree?

Like I said, I still haven't actually read the stories; but I'm willing to bet that the folk of the tree are sometimes nice, sometimes nasty, some that help you up, others that chase you away. Life's like that. Great writer, Enid Blyton. She was probably trying to equip kids of her generation for the real world.

But back to what I'm doing here. Yes, part of the reason I'm here is to travel, see places that seem magical to me, places that I would only be able to visit by making the effort of climbing the Faraway Tree. I've done a little of it, and I'd like to do more. I've climbed to the top of the tree, and now I just need to wait for the lands to come along, and hop aboard. And on the journey up I've met all kinds, fair and foul, and learned from them. And I've helped up my companions and been helped up the tree by them.

Don't know if Enid Blyton mentioned this, but the faraway lands don't come by if you shut your eyes. Only when you open them, and shade them with your palm to look into the distance, do they come by and invite you to visit.